Thursday, September 2, 2010

REWARDING DEED
In life,there are many things that happen which are at least expected.When these things turn to blessings,people"s hearts are softened and they look up above to praise HIM in glorious words.Some may just leave occurrences and daily happenings to destiny and may just keep everything to themselves.
But have you ever gone out of your way to do something for someone and yet been completely ignored?....
Very often,it is difficult to believe that doing good to others is worth the effort,especially when we do not receive a THANK YOU in return.And yet,serving without looking for reward is just like walking with GOD peacefully.As Christians,we should not display a CASH-AND-CARRY attitude of expecting immediate appreciation for the good we do.We must remember that someday,HE will richly reward us...


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i can simply say that we cannot speak in others behalf in terms of the things we need to do or not to do...for a reason that every individual has his/or her rights to do and say every thing he wanted to...but for me based on the quotation i've been grasping for quite some time that"THE MANNER IN WHICH I T IS GIVEN IS WORTH MORE THAN A GIFT"...in my own personal belief that every thing that is given to me is something i am to thank for...that in every thing that is done to me...what i'll be doing also in return.But... most of the time do consider that in every thing you do..do not expect something...we may not be having the same discernment on others but i may say that PEOPLE KNOW YOUR REAL WORTH ONLY WHEN YOU CEASE TO SERVE without asking for something in return....BIGOTRY others may say....but as a christian we are not here to please people but we are here to please GOD.......
The Power Of Words

"do not let unwholesome talk came out of your mouths,but only what is helpful for building others up...(Eph 4:29)
One destroys a person(himself included) every time he says,"I'll get even with him!" or "I cannot forgive him!" or "Mine is mine alone!" yes,one destroys a person and himself every time he says words that express contempt.
On the contrary,one builds a person every time he says,"I'm sorry,it was my fault"One builds a person every time he says, "I love you",or "May I help you?" yes, one builds a person every time he expresses words that comfort and heal the soul....

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Sometimes we need to think of the positivity of the words that we say...it may or may not harm someone..considering the manner it has been said.we have to consider the possibilities on how will it affect them...words of encouragement will somehow make them feel better...words of endearment allows them to feel that they're being loved and appreciated.Others may not be so mindful about giving consideration about what others may feel...but..do consider what if...you are in this situation?.....just remember if you don't have
any good thing to say...better yet...just KEEP QUIET...respect and being noteworthy on others emotions helps to build him up.........